I’m happy you’re here. I’ll go first: I’m a full-time journalist turned work-at-home writer. I’m hitched to a shaggy-haired pastor and we’re smitten with two wild + crazy boys: Joseph (4) and Asher (1). I drink strong coffee, I like pretty things, and I believe there’s beauty in the broken.
I hope this little space will encourage you to find worth and live a story worth sharing.
What is Many Sparrows?
This little corner of the Internet aims to encourage women, spurring them on to find worth and live a story worth sharing.
God tells us He cares about the little things — even down to a teeny, tiny sparrow. And if He cares about a little bird, how much more does He care about us — who are worth far more than many sparrows? Let’s dwell in the truth that He loves us with an arms-stretched-out kind love. Let’s rest easy, knowing we’re valued, loved, and worth more than we can even fathom.
I’m a person who’s blemished and blessed. All good things in my life flow from Jesus. My mission is to reflect his generous, grace-filled love with all my heart, soul, and mind. I’m passionate about shedding religious cliches and living an authentic, Kingdom life. Sometimes I get frustrated and often times I fail. I’m a work in progress.
Find Your Worth & Live a Story Worth Telling
My heart is to use this corner of the Internet to make much of Jesus. To use my words to reflect the creator of all things who gives extravagant grace, who radiates beauty and light in a very dark world.
I’m a mama of two little boys, and sometimes I just need a space to talk about things like shift dresses and wedge booties and dry shampoo. Let’s share our secrets, shall we?
Motherhood is messy. My hope is that my words + stories can be an encouragement to you in your parenting journey.
I want to raise a generation of kids that are free.
I want my boys to explore. To be adventurous.
To ask questions, to look at things and wonder why and why not.
I want to raise up a generation that isn’t afraid to get dirty.
I want my boys to never lose their sense of wonder. I want them to dream and think and do.
We seem to live in a world where it’s okay to be little, until it’s not.
We create boxes and raise inhabitants for those boxes.
I don’t want that.
I want my little ones to see life as an adventure.
To dig their hands into creation and to use their dreams and thoughts and words and actions for good.
I want my boys to know that it’s okay — good even — to ask questions. To venture off the beaten path when their hearts are lead elsewhere.
I want my boys to be thirsty for adventure — even if that journey takes place in their own backyard.
I want to raise children who are bold. Who are brave.
A billion books are stacked on shelves in stores around the world telling us how to be the perfect parent.
Pages on pages outline parenting philosophies. What’s better. What’s best.
I’m just a young mom of two young children, but here’s what I know: We set the course for our adventures.
As a mother, I get to hold the map and point out the treasure.
What my boys see in me will — for better or for worse — help them develop their own sense of self. Their own take on the world.
So where does that leave me?
If I want my boys to be messy and brave, then I need to be messy and brave.
As parents, we need to let our kids be little.
We need to inspire and encourage them to be the unique, amazing little people they were created to be.
So here’s to more adventures. The big ones. The little ones.
We’re not just raising a generation — we’re changing the world.
It may get a little messy, but it’s pretty beautiful, too.
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Now, let’s go on an adventure.
“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”
As we celebrate Mother’s Day, I think about the wisdom nestled into this African proverb.
I look at this photo of women living across the globe who fight cultural oppression and opposition to farm coffee beans to provide for themselves and their family, and I remember. I remember that we were never made to do it alone.
Jesus said the greatest commandment is this: To love God, and to love our neighbors.
Love. God. Others.
This seemingly simple statement changes everything.
Our hearts. Our families. Our neighborhoods. Our world.
I think about the mothers around the world, doing the holy work of parenting and emotionally and physically providing for their families.
About the universal truths of motherhood, as well as the experiences and struggles that I honestly can’t begin to fathom.
Later this month, my friend Britt, a fellow busy mama of little ones, is joining a team of runners to participate in the first-ever Run Across Congo, supporting, celebrating, and empowering women and mothers in farming communities.
“The Congo means so much to me because my son is Congolese. Kai came into our family through adoption two years ago. (I’m an advocate for family preservation and adoption should always be the last resort). What a better way to fight for family preservation then through advocating and raising funds and awareness for women to have sustainable incomes?” Britt says. “I want to do something help the people of Congo develop sustainable jobs and make positive changes in their communities so families can stay together. This also helps children stay with their families, which creates less orphans.”
I first connected with Britt because her son Kai has sickle cell anemia — just like our son Joseph. Her beautiful family (Surfers! Can you tell?) also opens their home through foster care. They’re truly living out the Kingdom of God, and it’s beautiful.
“We are running for women in the Congo — mothers and widows — who are all raising families and hoping for a bright future through a sustainable job such as coffee farming, ” Britt says.
The Run Across Congo, a 7-marathon, 7-day expedition, will raise awareness and funds for the inspiring female coffee farmers, farming families, and cooperatives working toward gender equality in the region. Britt is running the Great Lakes region of Africa for 185 miles, visiting villages and farming communities with organizing partners, On The Ground and Twin, which have existing relationships with coffee cooperatives and local officials.
“Running is a great way to advocate for any cause — it gets your attention. I’m running this distance because the people of DRCongo mean so much to me. I’m willing to do whatever it takes to raise awareness and funds for these women farmers to start up a sustainable business for themselves and for their families,” Britt says. “DRCongo is a war-torn country and is one of the most dangerous places in the world to be a woman. A lot of these women are raising children alone. With a sustainable business such as coffee farming, they can feed their families, send their children to school, and pay for medical care.”
Awareness and funds raised from Run Across Congo will have several long-term impacts, including gender equality and women’s empowerment programs, creating access to knowledge, land and income beyond coffee. Funds will be used to empower and educate female farmers to run their own lives and businesses and create a brighter future for coffee communities affected by civil war in eastern Democratic Republic of the Congo.
Funds will go three places:
- To women coffee farmers. “The funds we raise will go to purchase coffee trees, land use, and advocacy in country. The DRC is very gender biased when it comes to purchasing from women. Women selling coffee beans for instance at the market are passed over. We will be working with our partner organization in the Congo called Twin, who will help with the advocacy part on the ground in Congo,” Britt says.
- To the purchase of sewing machines for widows of soldiers who protect Virunga National Park. You can find the documentary Virunga on Netflix. “Rebel groups often poachers come into the park and poach endangered mountain gorillas. Oil companies have their eye on one of Congos most precious resources,” Britt says. “These soldiers risk their lives to protect this land. These soldiers killed leave behind families.”
- To a hospital. “Lastly, we’re funding the expansion of a hospital where women and children walk for up to four days come and seek care for sexual abuse. Congo has the highest amount of rape then anywhere in the world,” Britt says.
For Mother’s Day, we have a chance to enter into this opportunity to provide mercy, compassion, and empowerment to mothers and families around the world. It’s a privilege and honor and joy to loving one another, and this is an incredible opportunity to love in a very tangible way.
Please consider joining me to support Run Across Congo, and pray for Britt, and all the women she is running for.
“The Congo became part of our family forever,” Britt says. “I’m running for family.”
May is National Foster Care Month. Misconceptions and myths abound when it comes to foster care, so when Bethany Christian Services asked me to share this infographic, I didn’t only learn a few things, but I knew I wanted to share with you guys, too.
Every child deserves a voice, and a safe + loving family.
What stands out to you? For me, it’s #3.
“Most children in foster care are there because their birth parents could not adequately care for them.” That breaks my heart.
Do you have an experience with foster care? My prayer is that as believers, we would trust God to live out the call to be His hands and feet to a broken world.
For more, check out my friend Kaia’s absolutely amazing post about going from being a busy mama of four young kids to becoming a foster mom to becoming an adoptive mom, too.
“What a tremendous gift it is to be a mom. What a blessing it is to be a family.”